So, the time has come. You are ready to discuss your parent embracing the next chapter of their life in an assisted living community. This journey can be filled with lots of emotions. So, take a deep breath, embrace the chaos, and get ready to dance into this new chapter with style.
Step 1: The Decision Dance
Convincing your parent that it’s time to transition to assisted living can feel like a tango – sometimes graceful, sometimes a little clumsy. A gentle conversation is a good place to start. Highlighting the perks of senior living, you can say something like: “Mom, imagine living in a community where your neighbors are all fabulous friends, and you never have to mow the lawn again!” You can remind them of the great location of Denver, Colorado: the fresh air, and the nearby mountains – oh and the chance to show off their knitting skills to all their new friends.
Step 2: Touring the Oasis
Now it’s time to tour potential assisted living communities. Think of it as house-hunting, but with more bingo. Look for vibrant community life, delicious food, and a range of activities. If your parent loves bridge, find a place where bridge tournaments are a staple. And if they have Alzheimer’s or need memory care, ensure the community has specialized support to keep them safe and engaged.
Step 3: The Great Declutter
Once a community has been selected, next comes the epic declutter. This is where the real fun begins. Turn on some tunes from your parent’s heyday, and get ready to sift through decades of treasures (and some bizarre finds). That old lava lamp? Perhaps a keeper. The pile of old TV Guides? Maybe not. Remember, it’s all about making their new senior apartment feel like home, without the clutter.
Step 4: Packing with Panache
Decluttering flows smoothly into packing. And packing can feel like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Turn it into a quirky scavenger hunt. “Find the photo of Dad dressed as Santa!” It’s all about keeping the mood light. Make sure to pack essentials and a few cherished mementos to make the new place cozy.
Step 5: The Big Move
The moving day itself can be a whirlwind. Hiring some skilled-care movers can help ease the stress, or if costs are prohibitive, rally the family troops. Keep a checklist to ensure nothing gets left behind. Remember, moving can bring up a lot of emotions. Allow time to let your parent feel their feelings and accept them where they are at. Offer light-hearted and humorous responses when appropriate. For example, you could pick up a TV remote and direct the movers like a maestro with your “baton”.
Step 6: Settling In
Once your parent is settled in their new assisted living digs, it’s time to explore! Attend the welcome tea, join a community event, or simply take a stroll around the grounds. Introduce them to neighbors and staff – a nurturing environment makes the transition smoother. And don’t forget to sample the food – most communities or facilities take pride in their culinary offerings.
Step 7: Ongoing Support
Moving into assisted living doesn’t mean your role is done. Remember your parent will continue to have emotions after the move, but don’t be surprised if the adjustment is quick and positive! You can provide ongoing support and reassurance via regular visits, phone calls, and even participating in activities together. Stay connected with the staff to hear how they are doing when your parent doesn’t know you are watching.
Ralston Creek Neighborhood’s location in Arvada, Colorado has an extra layer of charm. Whether it’s the beautiful Colorado weather or the nearby activities, it offers a perfect backdrop for senior living. Come take your tour today!